Is providing a full Medical History the new Pre-Nuptial Agreement?

The other day I was enjoying a coffee date with two girlfriends at our local cafe. Both girls were quite distressed over the daughter of a friend of theirs, who was recently diagnosed with a malignant (cancerous) brain tumour. Julia* is 3yrs old, and although the tumour may have been there since birth (undetectably until now), it was now so big that it had covered more than half of her left brain and wrapped itself around Julia’s brain stem. It has been operated on, had three rounds of chemo, operated on again (and again, and again) and then had three more rounds of chemo. 3yrs old! Are you crying yet? Continue reading


I really want a baby. But…….

I wrote an article a few months ago that stated my longing to have a child of my own (read that here). But recently a good friend of mine had a beautiful little baby girl who is currently the sunshine of her life (and ours), and this friend has been THE ONLY PERSON TO BE HONEST WITH ME ABOUT THE HORRORS OF HAVE A BABY. Continue reading